Free Writing

Yesterday I was  celebrated one of my friend’s birthday. Which was going awesome, she cuts the cake, then we had a lunch. During celebrations we taken so may pictures (selfies), while taking snaps my mind goes into past days, when we hire a professional photographer for taken snaps, we pay them and fullfil their demands as, there is only one guy in the world who will able to capture snaps, sometimes this situation makes me laugh. Speaking of laugh, sometime laughter is better for health, if a person always remain sad it is a thousand chances that one day he/she will commit a suicide or they  will die before their age. Ohh! Speaking of suicide I remember that one suicide which was attempt by school going students during their assembly and now today I remind when I saw the news of a suicide of a student of medical collage because he was not allow to sit in exam, I think commit a suicide is such a useless attempt, they people surrender their lives to death instead of facing challenges. I think they people did not understand the meaning of life because life is such a wonderful adventure where we find many treasure, love, success and many more…  

WEB REVIEW :-

Many of us find Maths to be a little difficult subject,which is why most children do not like this subject.But there is a website Math is Fun  http://www.mathisfun.com/ that makes it seem very interesting and easy to learn and teach.It contains lots of information related to mathematics presented in a fun and attractive way.It has many sections like  puzzles, quizzes, algebra, money, worksheet, geometry, numbers, measurement, games etc.and the left hand pane carriers the link to the different sections of the site in a plain manner while in the center of the page are the options again in a creatively presented format.

One of the most interesting features of this website is the Illustrated Math Dictionary that contains definitions of lots of mathematical words and terms so that people can understand it easily.By the help of this website,you can explore many things related to mathematics.
The site can also prove to be a great help in teaching maths as Teachers Page offer loads of ideas that can make teaching maths a piece of cake and the activities suggested will help keep student entertained as they learn.
A visit to this website is sure to get you interested in maths and you will realize that this subject is not a very dull one and and very easy to understand only if the right method is used.So visit this website, polish your skin and get good marks in maths.

    

Free Writing

I was just scrolling my fb page and I saw our picture It was like 4 years old picture buh than I realized that there are Just 2 days left for your wedding yar, i couldn't be happier for you as you embark on the next stage of your life with the man you love. Right now i am doing my assignment plus thinking about our journey of friendship and we have been through together, I am reminded of just how important you are to me, how much I love, respect and admire you you're my friend cum sister . However, this friendship we share will change after this weekend, how could it not? But this does not sadden me. And I am so so excited for the day to come and from the moment your future begins. Saturday the day of your wedding it is going to be a wonderful session of picture, flowers, dresses, emotions and importantly joy  'and I know you you are more excited for this photography session not for your wedding' lol kidding. 
Remember to take in it all in slowly , and breathe. Don't get lost in the craziness of the day remember to enjoy and appreciate these moments that you'll remember for the rest of your life. I know it will be your happiest day  but it's ok to feel a little sad as well. 
As you remember your nearest and dearest who unfortunately can't share the celebrations with you and that's the saddest part :( I am dying to come but you know I can't and my reasons are geniune. But my prayers are with you and always will be. and please try to get some sleep, Saturday is a big big day. It is going to be beautiful all of the hard work you have done will certainly payoff and I think I should also sleep now otherwise mamma is going to kill me because it's too late now.. tataa!!

Free Writing

My eyes are wanting to close for a long time but I am giving them torture by writing this last blog then I'll be free for atleast one assignment and hopefully concentrate on other assignments too. I am very sleepy right now not because I am tired but because I will sleep for more hours if I could sleep earlier. Sleeping is my biggest weakness. I can sleep more than 20 hours in a day or most probably a week, aahhh I wish I can sleep for a week lol! This is may be funny or silly to hear you all that I just want to sleep for much time so I will see much DREAMS. Yes I want to see more and more dreams even I will make it true or not but I want to see them daily and more than one or two. I personally think that Dreams makes your mind to think about the facts and faults happening in your Life and whatever happens in your life, they just gives you the reason to think even it may be positive or negative. My Dreams always showed me the results of what I will be faced if I make that decision and luckily its always true. I never share my dreams with anyone because my dreams are too confusing to understand if i may share with someone, only I can handle my silly dreams. I have a nick name too 'Sleeping Beauty' or 'Neesti'. Well, I think its enough for that person who will read my silly thinking otherwise He/She will also sleep and I don't want to get bore someone andddd Ok Ok I am sleeping..........

Free Writing

I am really not in the mood to write now just because my sister wants the laptop for her work.. so here I am writing this blog by skipping my favorite movie which is home alone sometimes I wonder if I had a chance like that boy. I usually don’t watch movies but there are couples of movies that I do watch over and over.... by movies I remember the time when I was crazy about movies, and every latest release was a must watch for me. I am talking about the time when I was a kid of 10 or 12 years old and movies were still watchable with family. Movies stuff, it was such a joy to behold for us. But since, entertainment side started making crap movies I had stopped watching them ages ago. What sparked me to write this blog was my random scrolling of channels on the TV the other day. One fine Sunday evening as I was trying to kill my boredom by finding something watchable on the TV and my scrolling stopped at one channel. The channel was showing a Bollywood movie 'DHOOM 3' and by Dhoom and bollywood it doesn’t mean that I like bollywood movies well come to the point I was taken in awe by the super cool bike that AMIR KHAN had in the movie, I never knew it could be this super cool that he can ride it over a thin rope, isn’t that wow, and when I thought the stupidity can't go beyond it....The bike turned into a submarine!!!! Yes you heard me right a freaking SUBMARINE! and please try to hold your laugh because I really don’t know why I am laughing so badly even my mom is looking at me might be thinking that her daughter is completely turn mad now... well come to the point submarine should be dead by now and that was the time when I just couldn't watch anymore and I was glad I made the decision of not watching bollywood movies in my spare time because you are going to need a pack of DISPRIN...I don't hate bollywood, they have some pretty amazing movies too like TARRE ZAMEEN PAR and..uhhmm..well you got the point..And as you got my point I have no other point to tell you. So I guess it’s the time to just click the option publish and end my free writing blog.

  

Irresponsibility and blunders done by media.

From a very long time media is a source of information and a vital tool of communication, but some times we saw that in RACE OF RATTING or by mistake media done such blunders which will become shame full for that media organizations.

In 2011, a popular American magazine “PARADE”, initimates that “Benazir Bhutto” is still alive, that Sunday’s parade magazine went out in newspapers all across the country with a blaring cover headline, ”I am what the terrorist most fear”. Nobody though that the print article ought to pulled in light of its inaccuracy?

Now discuss some serious funny blunders by our Pakistani media,

This was happens when CM Punjab Shehbaz sharif’s  plane face some operational problem:

This was “lungs” not “lunns”:

These were all about situation which was occur may be by mistake, now discuss the irresponsible behavior of media. In last few days we all saw that one of the model and actor “Qandeel Baloch” become very popular through her “Cheap videos” specially during t20 world cup 2k16. She got success to motivate country’s intire media towards her and media give her special respect, conducting interviews and promoting them on social media. I think this behavior of media gave a side to all such type of “Cheap social media activist”. The first interview of her was conducting by Mubashir lucman and then mostly media follow that format and promote her act.

 I don’t know this all done for TRP’s or something else. We all know that such type of Cheap shows attract audience but it is confirmed that media lose their honesty and effectivity in eyes on general public.

                            FESTIVALS OF PAKISTAN:-

Culture of any country follow some specific values,virtues that hold by the nation of that country. Each nation has its own society.In the same way being an independent nation,Pakistan.it comprises of very diversified cultures.Pakistani society is a mixture of distinctive areas and tribes. for examples Sindh ,Punjab, Khyber Pakhtun Khan and Baluchistan. Pakistani nation is very close to its culture and celebrate cultural festivals with great zeal.There are some festival which are celebrated nation wise with full unity but if we focus on provinces of Pakistan every province has its different culture and they celebrate different festivals also.Being an Islamic Republic Nation religious festivals are celebrated with great fun.Here we list down all the festivals of Pakistan.

                                                ISLAMIC FESTIVALS:-    

EID UL FITR : Eid ul fitr is celebrating through out the country with great religious spirit. Eid ul Fitr is celebrating on 1st Shawal after the end of  Ramadan.The government declares 3 days public holiday on this occasion.

EID UL AZHA: This is referred  as  bari eid in Pakistan.It is celebrated on 10 zil haj the 12 month of Islamic calender's. This eid is remembrance of Hazrat Ibrahim,people sacrifice animals.Sacrifice process start soon after Eid till evening.Meat is primarily distributed on poor people.The government declares 3 days public holiday on this Eid as well.

SHAB E BARAT: This festival is celebrating on 14th on Shaban with great religious on this day.People after prayer on this night and seek ALLAH forgiveness on this holy day.Sweet dishes are cooked at home and exchanged from other neighbors.The government declares one day public holiday on this occasions.

EID MILAD UN NABI: is celebrated with to observe the birth of our beloved Prophet (Peace.Be.Upon.Him) on 12th of Rabi ul Awwal which is the 3 month of Islamic calendar.On this day streets and mosques are decorated and Milad are conducted.

 

                                                  

                                                      NATIONAL FESTIVALS :-

INDEPENDENCE DAY: is celebrating on 14th August.Special prayers are done on the mosque for the country.Rallies and different ceremonies are conducted through the country.The government also announce one day public holiday on this great occasion.

DEFENSE DAY: is celebrating on 6 September.It is celebrating in the remembrance of the 1965 wars in which Pakistan forces successfully defended the city of Lahore against the Indian army.

                                                   PROVINCIAL FESTIVALS:-

LOK MELA:  is celebrating in capital city of Islamabad.It is held in the 1 week of October.People from all the province gather in Islamabad to represent their culture.All the people wear traditional dresses of their region to represent their province.There are folk dances,songs to welcome spring.

 JOSHI: This festival is celebrating on 14 15 May in Kalash valley to welcome springs.People sings folk songs and dance to welcome spring.

 BASANT: is celebrating on Lahore in 1 week of March to welcome Spring.Kite flying is most prominent features of this festivals.

All these festivals in one or the other way show Pakistani Culture and its society values which is presented all over the Pakistan with pride. 

FRIENDS ARE PRECIOUS.. :)

Friendship are unique relationships because unlike family relationships we choose to enter into them. And unlike other voluntary bonds, like marriages and romantic relationships they lack a formal structure. The beautiful special thing about friendship, that friends are friends because they want to be that they choose each other is a double agent. 
Throughout life, from grade school to the retirement home, friendship continues to confer health benefits, both mt that a friend should always both mental and physical. I think the young adulthood is the golden age for forming friendships, as they move through life, people make and keep friends in different ways and some people do manage to stay friends for life, or at least for a sizable chunk of life. I am fortunate to be able to claim at least three friends and a number of other more recent onces that are close and durable. But i have also lost enough to understand that friendships are difficult and the closer they are the more difficult they become.

Tread carefully. friends are precious, even irreplaceable, but they are also fragile. Part of a good friendship is honesty. I think women sometimes struggle with friendship in the long run as they seem to have an unspoken pact that a friend should always be supportive. They just invest so much in each other. In each of my closest friends there have been moments when the friendships has nearly foundered but we somehow came through them to a relationship that was stronger than it was before the crisis. The nature of  friendship changes and you have to change with it. Me and my old school friends are still here still together, we still enjoy being around each other, and we treasure our shared histories, this is something precious. They are so important to me. 
There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendships..

South Asian Cuisine

I personally think that talking about Food give sort of a joy. Food is included in human life since the evolution of mankind and I guess it’s better to say human’s favorite hobby. It defines the nature and culture of human. In the beginning mankind used to eat similar variety of food but maybe I think at that time they were not familiar with the food crops and spices as such. By the time, variation comes in food and people starts eating according to their ethnicity and location. As I am South Asian so definitely all I am going to tell little bit about South Asian cuisine.

I just love South Asian cuisine because it is full of colors, spices and rich history. Majority of the dishes are connected to each other means minor changes of ingredients differs the taste and become a whole new dish. South Asian cuisine is considered to be the world most tasty cuisine which is being eaten and liked all over the world. Use of rice, garlic, ginger, chilies, onions, soy, and sesame seeds are the identity of South Asian cuisine.

South Asian cuisine basically started with the start of Mughal period in South Asia. They used to like rich and divine food so the cooks or chef at that time start using their talents in the world of spices to produce outstanding dishes. Their timetable of food was very defined and healthy. They usually don’t repeat the food course menu and prefer to eat something new. Chat, Pani Puri (gol gappay) and Pauo Bhaji were also the creation of that time, it was used to serve as a snacks. The mixture of crunch and spice drives the taste bud crazy. 

Main course of South Asian food are just remarkable it includes some famous dishes like Briyani, Korma,  Daal Chawal, Pulao, Curry, Tikka, Kabab, Haleem, Saagh, Palak Paneer,  Rajma Chawal, Roghan Josh, Tandori chicken, Dry Fish and Thali which include rice, gravy chickpea so on. These are some dishes which reflect the perfect blend of spices. Drinks of South Asian are very basic as well as healthy like Lassi, Limca, Chanch and Meetha Doodh. Similarly the sweet dish corner are also yummy South Asian likes kheer, Halwa, Jalebi and Mithai as a desert.

They also use number of thing which enhances the taste of food like "Chutney" and "Pickles". Personally I belief nothing can beat this cuisine and one thing I can tell you for sure the taste of South Asian cuisine is the taste which you have never tasted before. It is a perfect combination of taste, health and Joy.

Unemployed youth

Many times our parents and relatives speaks to us “if you will not educated you will not get a good job” but I questioned them that if we will not get a good job after getting education so what we will do? Some of the people become nil and some of them gave courage for hoping best but I believe that hoping best is not a solution of the problems, it seems like to close your eyes when lion comes to hunt you. Like than other people I also believe that education is the backbone of every society and without education no country or a nation can survive, but in creating an educated society we forgotten the after situation which will become more serious than this, we forgotten that when they will be educated, what they will do because for an educated man its very hard to do a small job most of them very hardly become a taxi driver because they don’t have other choice.

Now a days without jobs education is consider as useless. Pakistan annually produced about 445,000 university graduates and 10,000 computer science graduates but still we have about 1.5 million of unemployed population which also cause to increase crime rate. Parents spend their all money on their children and living in sweet dreams but as a result they get nothing all their money got wasted when they saw they son to Drove taxi…..

According to various independent and official studies Pakistan needs annual growth rate of at least 7% to create enough jobs to absorb new entrants into the labor market.

                                    FASHION DESIGN:-

FASHION AND ITS IMPORTANCE IN OUR LIFE:-Fashion is a word,which is recognized by all people of the society.The definition of fashion varies from one person to another.In today's world fashion is accepted by people of all class and culture.For some people,fashion is the latest trend in clothing's,accessories,footwear,and for others it may be latest food,lifestyle,etc.People who want to be up to date with the latest fashion follow various fashion magazines and media.Yes,fashion is very important in our life as it gives a good impression if we are dressed according to the latest fashion. Fashion becomes very important if you are a working woman or man.Therefore,fashion is very in our life.Hence,many fashion designers work hard to create new designs,which can attract people and accept them.

   

FASHION DESIGN:- Fashion design is the art of the application of design or natural beauty to clothing and accessories.Fashion design is influenced by cultural and social latitudes,and place.Fashion designer work in a numbers of ways in designing clothing and accessories.

HISTORY OF FASHION DESIGN:- Fashion design is generally considered to have started in the 19th century with Charles Fredrick Worth who was the first designer to have his label sewn in to the garments that he created.Before the former  draper setup his fashion house in Paris,clothing design and creation was handled by largely and high fashion descended from that worn at royal courts.Worth success was such that he was able to dictate to his customer what they should wear,instead of following their lead as earlier dressmakers had done.

It was during this period that many design houses began to hire artists to sketch or paint design for garments.The images were shown to clients,which was much cheaper than producing an actual sample garments in the workroom.If the client liked their design,they ordered it and the resulting garment made money for the house.Thus,the tradition of designers sketching out garments design instead of presenting completed garments on models to customers began as an economy.

FASHION AND STYLE IN INDIA:- India has always been the center of fashion and many people all around the world follow various Indian fashion.India being a large country with diversity has different types of fashion in different states.From North to South,fashion is different in India.As the Western Culture is also adopted by the young generation,latest fashion designers try to create Indian-Western outfits to style the new generation,which easily accepted by the old generation too.

WOMEN BEAUTY AND FASHION:-  Fashion is regarded as same to men and women equally,but women beauty and fashion is given more importance as they tend to attract many people.Therefore, every year various fashions are specially designed for women and are launched on a large scale.

Beauty also plays an important role in the women's fashion.Hence, it is necessary to match the latest fashion with the help of various latest beauty trend too.Beauty may include latest makeup or its products introduced in the market.

FASHION ONLINE:-  As this is an internet world,fashion easily located online.There are various websites,which offer fashion online and can be browsed as well as ordered from the comfort of the house.The latest trend can be followed through internet too.Online fashion gives you a broad view about not only national,but also international fashions trends.You can easily shop latest fashion online and be the proud owner of the latest designed outfit launched recently!!     

  

Social Media

I think social media addiction is something being played up in the media because it is a hot topic right now. The term social media addiction is frequently seen in headlines and tossed around by television. "Addiction" is the word that should not be used lightly to describe a set of behaviour. Media influence on teenagers can be deliberate, For example, media advertising is often directed at children and teenagers. This means that children and teenagers are increasingly conscious of brands and images. You are not alone if your child has pestered you to buy the next 'in' thing!
Seeing voilence media content often enough can make it more likely that someone will behave in an aggressive or voilence way, be less understanding of other people's needs and feelings, and feel more afraid of their environment. An addiction will cause the individual to lose out on other things on life. For example, spending too much time on social networks at work causes the individual to lose their job. Social networking has become not only a vehicle to communicate but a reason to communicate and share personal thoughts and ideas.

Using social media is not bad at all but we should set our limits or timings. New techonologies always provoke generational panic, which usually has made to do with adult fears than with the lives of teenagers. The best way to help your child navigate media influences is to talk about the messages, For example If your child loves girls. You should talk together about female friendships, sexuality, self-esteem and life choices. Or if your child is into a computer games like Grand Theft Auto, you could talk about the voilence, exploitation of women and the criminal activity. You could talk about how your child would handle these situations in real life.
 Again, social interaction through social media isn't a bad thing. From a personal perspective I've enjoyed posting blogs, it has given me a platform of expressing an opinion where I had not the opportunity in the past. Utilizing social media to engage in social interactions is just another alternative. The key is to be able to balance the use of this exciting form of interaction with all the other aspects of our lives.

CHEAP CONTENT IN PAKISTANI INDUSTRY

Films and Drama are always been a source of entertainment for housewives as well as other members of family but there is also one thing that we didn't notice which is that these drama left's a great impact on our life as well. If we specifically focus on the Pakistani drama industry there was a time when a good objective dramas were produced which do bring a positive changes in society they were patriotic and meaningful. Even if the genre of the Drama was romantic or comedy it was produced in such a manner that we can easily watch with our family.If we look back to our drama industry we have produced dramas like Alpha Bravo Charlie, Tanhaiyaan, 50-50, Khuda Ki Basti, Angan Terha and many more.Now a days Those material is gone, hundreds of drama are being Telecast on T.V regularly but very few are considered to be watched along with family. Majority of the drama promotes such ethics which are not applicable in our society examples are listed below.

• Zip
• Band khirkyon kay peechay
• Manay na yeh dil
• Ishq Junoon Deewangi
• and many more

Similar case goes with our Film industry as well, for a very long period of time our industry has lost it's reputation due the production of meaning less vulgar films. Then a revolution came and then movie like "Khuda kai Liye" ,"Waar" and "BOL" made highlighting the very unspoken reality of the society . Unfortunately the lust of success can make person to do anything. In order to earn more money, Pakistani Director starts promoting cheap and vulgar comedy. I mean what they want to promote through this and one more thing the addition of ITEM SONGS in the movies seriously just because showcasing the half naked girl can bring much success to the movie so you'll start copying the Bollywood industry. Following are the example of such movies

• Wrong no
• Yeh Jawani Phir nahi ani
• Na Maloom Afrad
• Karachi se Lahore
• Bin roye

What do I think is that we don't need to copy anyone we have enough talent which we can use as the x factor element. Instead of promoting meaning less and worthless script why don't we showcase  the actual issues which need to be solve and one more thing that I personally think someone must take action on  the dressing. PEMRA must take serious action on the dressing styles of drama and film actresses. I really don't know what is the need to wear half naked clothes which goes against our cultural values. If we really don't take action on the following things and let the things keep going on then we'll definitely lose our cultural and ethical values. 

#FIX IT

Karachi the biggest city of Pakistan, now a days facing very critical situation due to the irresponsible behavior of government of Sindh. “From the city of lights it become city of Garbage”. No one is able to take over on the situation of Karachi city, in this situation a man name Alamgir from Karachi, take a stand for this city. He is from those who has enthusiasm for the betterment of city and he choose a unique idea to highlight the problems of Karachi and to convey the message of common people (aam admi) to higher officials.

Social campaign

Alamgir khan start a campaign naming #fix it on social media to highlight the problems of common people. According to this campaign Alamgir draw a sketch of  CM SINDH along open manholes with spray colour on  university road at mid night and write a short message #fixit for him and took snaps which goes viral on social media. Alamgir fully appreciated by the common public and many of them joining his campaign officially. He also introduce #FIXIT Mobile App for convenience of common people.

CM’s Reaction

Alamgir magic’s work, he was succeed to awoke the sleeping beauties of city so, in the reaction of his efforts chief minister called administrator Karachi and lambasting on him and said: “Is sealing gutters also my job?” he gave him two days deadline to solve this issue but unfortunately they failed.

video link: https://www.facebook.com/AKMehsud/videos/1025593597497644/

Work Of Alamgir

•  After saw non serious behavior of government he decided to take his campaign to the next level. He and his team arranged manholes covers at a cost of 13,000 and the group sealed over 42 manholes on university road.
• ·The next step of #fix it is to “sweep Karachi”. For this they collected some funds from public to arrange the tractors.
• ·From 9 feb 2016, he start work on it and collect garbage from residential area “korangi” then they reached other areas of the city.
• ·He gave a deadline of one week to the CM Sindh to clean the city but government  did not take it serious so he decided to give protest in front of CM house Karachi. which also become the arrest reason of him.
•  Few weeks ago he made “wall of kindness” beside the Iqra university north nazimabad campus.

Harassment by the government

From the very first day he got threats to stop his campaign. One week before he get areested by Karachi police and spend a night in model jail.

Now the point is that if a person can awake the sleeping beauties of city and took bold steps so, why we all Pakistani’s will not able to take such a bold step to awake the minister and president too….  

 

  اسلام اور پردہ

پردے کا لٖٖغوی مفہوم ہے گھونگٹ ، اوٹ ، چھپانا، بھید وغیرہ۔یہ لفظ عربی زبان میں حجاب کے معنی میں استعمال ہوتا ہے۔پردے کا دین اسلام میں واضح حکم دیا گیا ہے۔ اسلام سے پہلے عرب میں پردہ نہیں کیا جاتا تھا جسکی وجہ سے عربِ معاشرہ بے شمار اخلاقی برائیوں کا شکار تھا۔ابھی بھی جس معاشرے میں بے پردگی ہے وہاں بے شمار اخلاقی ،معاشرتی بیماریاں موجود ہیں۔اسوقت دنیا میں قتل و غارت کے جتنے بھی واقعات کے پسِ منظر میں کہیں نہ کہیں بے پردگی سبب ہوگی۔’’اسلام نے عورت کا اصل مقام اسکا گھر قرار دیا ہے۔ قرآن مجید کی آیات مبارکہ ہے تم اپنے گھروں میں وقار کے ساتھ ٹک کر رہو۔ الا حزاب ۳۳
آیات مبارکہ کی تائید نبی کریم ﷺ کی حدیث مبارکہ سے بھی ہوتی ہے۔عورتوں نے آپ ﷺ سے عرض کیا یا رسول اللہ ﷺ ساری فضیلت تو مرد لے گئے وہ جہاد کرتے ہیں ہم کون سا عمل کریں کہ مجاہدین کے برابر اجر و ثواب حاصل کریں تو آپ ﷺ نے جواب دیا:تم میں سے جو گھر بیٹھے گی وہ مجاہدین کے عمل کو پالے گی۔
اسلام نے عورت کو مرد سے نرم لہجے میں بھی بات کرنے سے منع کیا ہے۔مرد سے ضرورت کے تحت بات کرنا منع نہیں مگر ایسا لہجہ اور اندازِ گفتگو اپنانا چاہیئے کہ جس سے سننے والے کے دل میں کوئی غلط فہمی پیدا نہ ہو۔ قرآن پاک کی سورہ ا لاحزاب کی آیات نمبر ۳۲ میں ہے :’’ اے نبیﷺ کی بیویو!تم عام عورتوں کی طرح نہیں ہو۔اگر تم خدا سے ڈرنے والی ہو تو نرم آواز میں بات نہ کیا کرو کہ دل کی خرابی میں کوئی شخص لالچ میں پڑجائے بلکہ صاف اور سیدھی بات کرو۔‘‘اس آیات مبارکہ میں حکم صرف ازواج مطہرات کیلئے نہیں بلکہ تمام مسلمان عورتوں کے لئے حکم ہے کیونکہ نبی کریمﷺ کی از واج مطہرات تمام مسلمان عورتوں کیلئے قابلِ تقلید نمونہ ہیں۔
ایک اور جگہ قرآن کریم میں آتا ہے: وہ اپنے زمین پر مارتی ہوئی نہ چلا کریں کہ انہوں نے جو زینت چھپا رکھی ہے انکا علم لوگوں کو ہوجائے ۔‘‘ دورِ جاہلیت میں عورتیں جب لوگوں کے پاس سے گزرتی تھی تو اپنے پاؤں زمین پر زور سے مارتیں جس سے انکی پازیب کی جھنکار پر لوگ متوجہ ہو جاتے۔ اسلام نے عورت کو اس طرح کے تمام کام کرنے سے منع کردیا ہے جس سے نامحرم اس کی طرف متوجہ ہوں، اس میں خوشبو وغیرہ ۔مسلمان عورت پر پردہ واجب ہے۔ قرآن پاک میں ہے: ور اپنی اوڑھنیاں اپنے سینوں پر ڈالے رہیں‘‘۔ (النور ۳۱)۔حضرت عائشہ ؓ سے روایت ہے کہ جب یہ آیت مبارکہ نازل ہوئی اور مدینہ کی عورتوں نے اسے سنا تو ہر ایک اٹھی ، کسی نے اپنا کمر پٹہ کھول کر،کسی نے چادر اٹھا کر فوراََ اسکا ڈوپٹہ بنایا اور اوڑھ لیا۔ دوسرے روز صبح کی نماز کے وقت جتنی بھی عورتیں مسجدِنبویﷺ میں داخل ہوئیں سب ڈوپٹے اوڑھے ہوئے تھیں۔
پردے کے تین درجات ہیں:
اول درجہ: جو اصل مطلوب شرعی ہے وہ حجاب مردوں سے ہے کہ عورتیں اپنے گھر میں رہیں لیکن شریعتِ اسلامیہ ایک جامع اور مکمل نظام ہے جس میں انسان کی تمام ضروریات کی رعایت پوری کی گئی ہے۔ اور یہ ظاہر ہے کہ عورتوں کو ایسی ضرورتیں پیش آنا نا گزیر ہے جب وہ کسی وقت گھروں سے نکلیں۔
دوسرا درجہ: قرآن و سنت کی رو سے معلوم ہوتا ہے کہ سر سے پاؤں تک برقع یا لمبی چادر میں پورے بدن کو چھپا کر نکلیں راستہ دیکھنے کے لئے چادر میں سے صرف ایک آنکھ کھولیں یا برقع میں جو جالی آنکھوں کے سامنے استعمال کی جاتی ہے وہ لگائیں۔
تیسرا درجہ: ایک تیسرا در جہ بھی بعض روایات سے مفہوم ہوتا ہے کہ جس میں فقہائے امت کی راہیں مختلف ہیں اور وہ یہ کہ عورتیں جب ضرورت کے تحت گھروں سے باہر نکلیں تو وہ اپنا چہرہ ہتھلیاں بھی لوگوں کے سامنے کھول سکتی ہیں بشرطیکہ سارا بدن مستور ہو۔
قرآنِ پاک میں سورہ النور کی آیات نمبر ۳۱ میں آتا ہے کہ :’’ وہ اپنی زینت ظاہر نہ کریں مگر ان لوگوں کے سامنے شوہر، باپ ، شوہروں کے باپ ، اپنے بیٹے ، بھائی ، بیٹے ، بھتیجے، بھانجے، اپنی عورتیں، اپنے مملوک جو ابھی عورتوں کی پوشیدہ باتوں سے واقف نہ ہوں‘‘۔ جس معاشرے میں پردہ رائج ہوتا ہے وہاں زنا اور دوسری اخلاقی برائیاں نہیں پائی جاتیں۔

WOMEN RIGHTS..

In earlier times, women were deprived of their rightful status. even amongst Muslims who have clear guidelines about the rights of women prescribed in the Holy Quran, a wife's status was as described by the Promised Messiah (AS) , like that of a worthless object. 
At the time when awareness of women's right has been growing worldwide it is paradoxical that voilence against women should be on the rise in countries like Pakistan. Studies by several organizations indicate a 15% increase in violence against women in Pakistan in the year 2009. 
                         

Even in the west which claims to be the standard-bearer of women's right, only until a few decades ago women had no status. Islamic teachings are unambiguous. The history of pre- islamic Arabia that women were treated in an appaling manner. Similar attitudes were prevalent in the western civilisation and to some extent even now: if men can get away with it, they treat women badly. That is why domestic unhappiness and divorce rates are high.
Majority of Pakistani women suffer in silence, with hardly a voice raised in protest. In june 2003 the Proviencial Assembly of Pakistan passed a bill introducing Sharia law in the region which borders Afghanistan.
 The law declares that the Sharia, as laid down in the Holy Quran and Sunnah, to be the supreme law of the region. Accounts of history are frightning. The Holy Prophet (PBUH) Championed the rights of women. He established their rights of inheritance, gave them equal rights.
Thus Islam is the first religion to give women rights of inheritance. Husbands have no rights on their wives' money, or her earnings, this is strictly forbidden.
                              

 In Pakistan the story of woman's deprivations start even before her birth, because she girl-child is not a particurlary wanted child. Her life is a journey of subordination. When she is young her father decides for her on matters ranging from whether she will get any education or not, to all the important matters of whom she would marry?
She is simply forced to accept certain bare facts of life once she grows up to be a woman. 
"The rights to life of women in Pakistan is conditional on their obeying social norms and traditions". Islam and The Holy Prophet (PBUH) have conferred upon women the greatest of kindness. As i've said earlier, women can never show edequale gratitude for this. Today it is the obligation of every woman to be ever filled with a sense of gratitude for this tramendous favour of Allah the Exalted and his Prophet on muslim women. So that is why it is time for action to end voilence against women wheather  muslim or non-muslim we have to raise our voice against this.
This target can be achieved firstly through proper commitment of our home media like TV, Radio, Newspaper and films, that has the power to mold public opinion and here the government's support has to be unconditional. The second way is the evolutionary process through which the mothers by being independent of region, caste or creed can instill in their children from the very beginning that both the genders are important and 'honorable' and have a key role to play in the society.          
                                   

Trumps Agenda In U.S election

I personally think that U.S election is considered to be the most important for the international politics. As we do know that U.S is the only super power who is still existing and maintaining their power level after WWII. U.S portray effective impact on almost every country. According to me, candidate in U.S election are more important then the election because president would be choose among them. So it is very necessary that every candidate policy regards Foreign state must be neutral. They must earn vote on the basis of personal qualities and commitments regards national interest rather then a cheap scenario. I would have never used the word cheap scenario but unfortunately I have to. Name of Mr.Donald Trump is the most highlighted name among the all candidates, he belongs to Republican party.

Although the name of Hillary Clinton who belongs to the Democratic party has the most prominent personality due to her strong political background, so there is not even a 0% chance for Mr Trump, who we don't even know before become that much popular. Like I said cheap scenario he uses the agenda of anti Muslim thing to gain a sympathy among the people of U.S. As there is nothing to tell you about that how much people of U.S hate Muslims after 9/11. They think Muslims are just here in this world to harm them or to kill them, there purpose of living is nothing they just want to showcase there religion and wants the enforcement of their custom around the world. I don't deny the fact that there are some couple of groups who call them Muslim and causes those harm but in actual terms they are not Muslims not even human. People around the world needs to understand that not all the Muslims are like other but i guess it's too late for them to understand because people like Donald trump are using that gap for their own personal interest.

From the beginning of his election campaign he assures the citizen of U.S that he will ban the entering of Muslims in USA.According to him all Muslims are terrorist they need to be serve with great punishment. In his all speeches he point out Muslims as a villain of the story, I really think he not even consider Muslim as a citizen of U.S. If a person like him becomes a president of  U.S then you can imagine his policies regard Muslim world would be not more then a set of cruelness and brutality. Besides being Anti Muslim, he is also anti Mexican he didn't say it straight but by twisting his words he explains his opinion by calling them criminal and rapist. Although he has a highest polling rank in Republican party and his obvious expected competitor is Hillary Clinton who have a highest polling rank in Democratic party but still the chances of winning is towards Trump. I really don't think so a person like trump could bring any good for anyone. 

عظیم دیوار سندھ

کیا آپ کو معلوم ہے پاکستان میں ایک ایسی دیوار موجود ہے جو بظاہر دیوار چین جیسی نظر آتی ہے؟ 

  کراچی سے تقریباً تین سو کلو میٹر دور ضلع جام شوروکے پہاڑی صحرا میں رنی کوٹ قلعہ واقع ہے  جسے عظیم دیوارسندھ بھی کہا جاتا ہے۔ جس کی ایک وجہ یہ بھی ہے کہ یہ دیوار قلعہ کا حصہ سمجھی جاتی ہے ۔ یہ قلعہ یعنی دیوار سندھ   تقریباً 30 سے 32 کلومیٹر کے رقبے پر پھیلی ہوئی ہےقلعہ کی ایک دیوار 7777 کلو میٹر جبکہ دوسری 3500 کلومیٹر طویل ہے ۔ اس قلعہ کا ایک حصہ قدرتی ہے جو پہاڑی سلسلوں پر مبنی ہے اور دوسرا انسانی ہاتھوں سے بنایا گیا ہے۔ انسانی ہاتھوں سے تیار کردہ دیوار تقریباً 30 فٹ  جبکہ دوسرا حصہ 2000 فٹ بلند و بالا پہاڑ پر مبنی ہے۔ نی کوٹ کے نام سے مشہور اس عظیم دیوار سندھ کی خاص بات یہ بھی ہے کہ اس کے اندر دو چھوٹے قلعے موجود ہیں جو اسے دنیا کے عظیم  اورمنفرد قلعے کی حیثیت دیتے ہیں ۔ ان دو چھوٹے قلعوں میں سے ایک
  کا نام میری ہے جس میں شاہی رہائش گاہیں موجود ہیں اور میری قلعے کی ایک خاص بات یہ ہے کہ یہاں سے کوئی بھی دوسرے چھوٹے قلعے یعنی 'شیر گڑھ' کو با آسانی دیکھ سکتا ہے جو 750 فٹ اونچی پہاڑی پر موجود ہے۔ قلعے میں داخل ہونے کے لئے چار منفرد قسم کے دروازے تعمیر کئے گئے تھے ، قلعے میں تباہ حال ڈ یم بھی موجود ہے جس سے معلوم ہوتا ہے کہ کسی زمانے میں قلعے میں ذرخیزی موجود تھی ۔

اب سوال یہ بنتا ہے کہ رنی کوٹ قلعہ کیوں ، کب ، کیسے تعمیر کیا گیا تو اس بحث پر محقیقین ابھی تک متفق نہیں ہوپائے ہیں کچھ کا کہنا ہے کہ رنی کوٹ یونانیوں کی طرز تعمیر سے مشابہہ ہے ، چند ماہرین کا ماننا ہے کہ یہ دیوار 826 ہجری میں عرب گورنر عمران بن موسٰی نے تعمیر کروایا اور بعض اس بات پر متفق ہیں کہ اس قلعے کو تالپر حکمرانوں نے 1812ع میں بنوایا تھا۔ 
محقق مسٹر اے ڈبلیو ہوز نے 1856ع میں اپنی کتاب 'سندھ گزیٹیئر' میں لکھا ہے کہ رنی کوٹ سندھ کے تالپر حکمرانوں نے اپنا قیمتی سامان محفوظ کرنے کے لئے بنوایا تھا۔ 

رنی کوٹ پر مستند اور صحیح تحقیق نہ ہونے کی وجہ سے آج دنیا بھر میں رنی کوٹ کو وہ جگہ نہیں مل پائی جو دیوار چین سمیت دنیا کے دیگر قلعوں کے حصے میں آئی ہے۔ مختلف محققین کی مختلف باتیں رنی کوٹ سے متعلق عام لوگوں کو مزید پریشان کردیتی ہیں اور عام لوگ رنی کوٹ کی تاریخ پر اعتبار ہی نہیں کر پاتے۔

 تقریباً 1993 سے یونیسکو کی جانب سے رنی کوٹ کو عالمی ورثہ قرار دیئے جانے کے باوجود تا حال اس پر کوئی مستند تاریخ سامنے نہیں آئی اور سونے پر سوہاگہ یہ کہ پاکستان اور سندھ میں رہنے والوں کی اکثریت اس بات سے بھی بے خبر ہیں کہ یہاں دیوار چین جیسی یہ ایک عظیم دیوار موجود ہے جس کی ایک اور حیران کن بات یہ کہ  یہ دیوار چین سے تقریباً ایک ہزار کلو میٹر بڑی ہے اور اسے دنیا کے سب سے بڑے قلعے کے نام سے جانا جاتا ہے۔ 

یہ دیوار ہماری غفلت سے کئے مقامات سے ٹوٹ پھوٹ کا شیکار ہو چکی ہے اور اگر آنے والے دنوں میں اسکی بہتری کے لئے اقدامات نہ کئے گئے تو یہ تاریخی ورثہ اپنی حیثیت کھو بیٹھے گا۔

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کوئی ہے جو عورتوں پر بار بار تشدد ہونے سے انکو بچائے؟        

یہ درست ہے کہ آج لڑکی کی پیدائش ماضی کی طرح ایک حادثہ نہیں رہی۔لیکن اب بھی متوسط گھرانوں میں اوسط شکل و صورت کی لڑکیوں کے لیے زندگی کسی سانحے سے کم نہیں۔ہوش سنبھالتے ہی لڑکیوں کے ذہن میں یہ بات ڈال دی جاتی ہے انکی زندگی کا اصل مقصد شادی ہے۔ انکو بچپن سے ہی یہ یقین کرایا جاتا ہے کہ لوگوں خصوصاََ صنفِ مخالف کے معیار پر پورا اترنا اور خوبصورت نظر آنا عورت کی مجبوری ہے۔’’لوگ کیا کہییں گے، اگلے گھر جاکر ناک کٹواؤ گی، زور سے نہ ہنسو، دھیمے لہجے میں بات کرو، جھک کر چلو‘‘ ایسے ہی لاتعداد جملوں اور غلط رویوں سے لڑکیوں کو بے انتہا غیر محفوظ کردیا جاتا ہے۔اور وہ زندگی کے ہر معاملے میں خود کو منوانے کے لیے دوسروں کی قبولیت اور خوشنودی کی محتاج نطر آتی ہیں۔
ٓٓٓ آج لڑکیوں کی اکثریت کا سب سے بڑا مسئلہ اچھے ’’بر‘‘ کا حصول ہے۔ہم ایک ایسے معاشرے میں زندہ ہیں جہاں عورت دوسرے درجے کی مخلوق سمجھی جاتی ہے۔ جو نہ پسندیدگی کے اظہار کا حق رکھتی ہے اور نہ محبت کا کیونکہ اسکا ہر عمل مرد کی انا کا مسئلہ بن جاتا ہے۔اس معاملے میں لڑکے والوں کا رویہ بے لگام حکمرانوں کا سا نظر آتا ہے۔اکثر لڑکوں کی مائیں رد کی جانے والی لڑکیوں کی تعداد اس فخر سے بیان کرتی ہیں گویا میچ کا اسکور بتارہی ہوں۔’’اے سن‘ ‘ میں تو اپنے بیٹے کے لیے چاند سی بہو لاؤں گی۔اب تک سو سے زیادہ لڑکیاں دیکھ چکی ہوں پر کیا کروں کوئی پسند ہی نہیں آتی۔اس سے قطع نظر کہ مشرق کے مرد کس قدروجیہہ ہوتے ہیں۔ لڑکیوں کے حسن کا معیار دن بہ دن بڑھتا جارہا ہے۔پریوں کی تلاش میں نکلنے والے اکثر لڑکے کی مائیں آئینہ دیکھنا بھول جاتی ہیں۔ انہیں اپنے بیٹے کے لئے ایک شریکِ سفر کی بجائے ایک ایسے حسین بت کی تلاش ہوتی ہے۔ جسکا قد نکلتا ہو، میدہ جیسی سفید رنگت،کشادہ پیشانی اور آنکھیں ترکش ہوں۔اسکے علاوہ گرین کارڈ وہ اضافی خصوصیت ہے جو شادی کی منڈی میں لڑکی کی قیمت بڑھادیتی ہے۔ عورتوں کے طبقے کے لیے اعلی تعلیم اور ملازمت وہ عیب سمجھے جاتے ہیں جنہیں اچھے خاصے پڑھے   لکھے گھرانوں میں بھی ناپسندیدگی کی نظر سے دیکھا جاتا ہے۔کیونکہ اکثر لوگوں کے نزدیک علم عورت کو خودسر اور اپنی کمائی خودمختار بنادیتی ہے۔ان جیسے لوگوں کے نزدیک جس قدر حسین ،کم عمر اور کم عقل ہو، زندگی اتنی ہی اچھی گزرتی ہے

اکثر لڑکی دیکھنے کے لیے آنے والوں کا رویہ کسی قصائی سے کم نہیں ہوتا۔ نظروں ہی نظروں میں لڑکی کے سراپے کو یوں جانچا، تولا جاتا ہے جیسے قربانی کے لیے گائے خریدی جا رہی ہو۔ پسند نہ آئے تو چہرے پر ایسے ناگوار تاثرات ابھرتے ہیں کہ آگے کچھ کہنے کی ضرورت باقی نہیں رہتی۔درجنوں گھر گھومنے ،ضیافتیں اڑانے کے بعد کہیں جاکر حور پری کا انتخاب تو ہو جاتا ہے لیکن دوسری طرف چبھتے ہوئے سوال، نظریں، رویے اور بار بار مسترد کئے جانے کی تکلیف کتنی ہی لڑکیوں کو توڑ کر رکھ دیتی ہے۔ اسکا اندازہ صرف وہی کر سکتا ہے جو اس عمل سے گزرا ہو۔یہ درست ہے کہ وقت گزرنے کہ ساتھ لڑکی والوں کا رویہ بھی منفی ہوتا جارہا ہے۔لڑکیاں شریف شریکِ سفر کی بجائے ہیرو کی تلاش میں نظر آتی ہیں اور والدین خاندان، شرافت اور تعلیم کے بجائے بینک بیلنس،گاڑی اور بنگلے میں رہنے والے داماد کو ترجیح دیتے ہیں۔ہمارے ہاں منافقت کا یہ عالم ہے کہ اگر کوئی لڑکا لڑکی ایک دوسرے کو پسند کرلے تو انکو بے حجاب سمجھا جاتا ہے۔ 

شادی کے حوالے سے میں یہاں پر کچھ ماہرین نفسیات ڈاکٹر کے بارے میں بتانا چاہوں گی کہ انکا کہنا ہے کہ ان لوگوں کے پاس آنے والے ایسے کیسوں کی تعداد میں دن بھر دن اٖضافہ ہوتا جارہا ہے جن میں خواتین کی اکثریت شادی نہ ہونے ، منگنی ٹوٹنے محبت میں ناکامی ، طلاق کے بعد شدید مایوسی، ڈپریشن کا شکار ہوتی ہیں اور ان میں تو کچھ عورتیں تو ایسی صورتوں میں ہیں کہ وہ خودکوشی جیسے انتہائی قدم اٹھانے سے بھی نہیں ڈرتی۔بہت سی خواتین جارحانہ رویہ اختیار کر لیتی ہیں ، جو ہر وقت دوسروں کا مزاق اڑاتی رہتی ہیں، یا شکوہ کرتی ہوئی نظر آتی ہیں۔

ایک اچھے جیون ساتھی کے انتخاب کا حق سب کو ہے۔لیکن ہم ایک ایسے معاشرے میں رہ رہے ہیں کہ جہاں پر یہ انتخاب کا حق صرف مرد وں کو ہے۔لڑکیوں کو محض شکل و صورت اور لڑکوں کو مال و حیثیت کی کسوٹی پر ہی کیوں پرکھا جاتا ہے ؟ مویشیوں کی طرح ڈرائنگ روم میں بار بار بیٹیوں کی نمائش کرنے اور انہیں مسترد کرنے کی روایت کیوں پروان چڑھائی جا رہی ہے؟میں آج کی پڑھی لکھی نوجوان نسل سے پوچھتی ہوں کہ کیا ان میں اتنی ہمت نہیں ہے کہ وہ اس پرانی روایت کے خلاف آواز بلند کرے اور اپنے عمل سے مثبت مثالیں قائم کرے۔ کاش! ہم صدیوں سے چلتی آئی ہوئی روایت سے پہلے سمجھ جائیں ورنہ کہیں ایسا نہ ہو کہ لفظ شادی خوشی کے بجائے لڑکیوں کے لیے غم کی علامت بن جائے۔اور وہ مایوسی کے اندھیروں میں ہمیشہ کے لیے ڈوب جائیں۔